1.3 In this author talked about three voice tones —
i) The late-night FM DJ voice - in this tone you inflect your voice downward, keeping it calm & slow. It create an aura of authority and trustworthiness without triggering defensiveness.
ii) The positive/playful voice - this is your default voice. It's the voice of an easygoing, good-natured person.
iii) The direct/assertive voice - this used rarely. Will cause problems and create pushback.